WARNING!!!! MEN TEACH YOUR SONS ABOUT GEN Z GIRLS BEFORE IT IS TOO LATE


Men customarily teach their sons how to be responsible, respectful, focused and successful in material things but seldom teach that 50 percent of their happiness, health, even wealth depends on who a man chooses as a wife. A good wife is simply  Wisdom In Feminine Embodiment while a bad wife is Warlord in Feminine Embodiment. The wisdom of a good wife is mightier than the instrument of war. A wise wife helps her husband navigate safely through windy storms of life like the rudder of a mighty ship, while the Warlord in a bad wife leads a man to unnecessary wars that leaves him wounded on many sides, unable to attain his potentials.

At 21 years of age and above, young men start to develop a career or business  success pathway with the aim to stand out and raise a family. It's a biological or environmental programming in the mind of men. 

In the light of the above, a young man must be taught hard truth with love and patience about real life that is not taught in schools. He must also be taught wisdom about the opposite gender gleaned from the experiences of other men that transcend generations.


As the number 5 represents the human fingers, I   present five  inspired fingers of truth.


TRUTH NO 1.

As a virtuous woman is a rare gem that must be sought for and found through carefully checking out what stands out in the list of her priorities so also a good man, diligent, slow to anger, kind in the heart, and faithful in deed. 


TO SEARCH FOR A WIFE


If her eyes go on the luxury  G wagon Benz of a man with an unidentified source of income but not on a decent young man with a promising career,   whose step is in the right direction,  and needs time and resilience for his efforts to materialize, watch out she may be courting the limelight of public show not the homelight to a disciplined, balanced life. 


TRUTH NO 2

If she knows it's important to weave her hair, polish her nails, trim her eyelashes and paint her lips to MAKEUP her beauty and hide her blemishes but does not know she must fix her mind to think of enterprise as  a future HELP MEET, or know she must coat her lips with honor so that her words reflect a would be manager of businesses , leader in career and mother of princes and princess , be wary. Flee. It is easier to fix weavon than to fix broken mind of o a woman of easy virtue.


If she does not find it worthy to fix her hands to skills and healthy home made meals but prefers  men's pockets and fancy restaurants, be wary , an idle hand that is a spendthrift may lead a man from board room to court room.


If she does make efforts to fix her eyes on pairing with a young man with potential but filthy rich men with filthy dirty liabilities, be wary

because a girl with an untrimmed appetite for what can only be afforded by a reveler seeking for a night of fantasy not a lifetime of honor and reward, may become a liability  and danger to a man who aims for success through hardwork.


TRUTH NO 3

The emotional health of a person assists in the attainment of success in many areas of life including healthy, disease free body.


Your spouse is either half Your Spoiler or half Your Spark. 


TRUTH NO 4.

Marriage is not MANAGE it is  MARRY YOUR AGE 


Age is not calculated in numbers but in the vision you share


If you marry a spouse from another generation, you suffer to explain or may never bring the spouse to be useful in your generation so conflicts will persist until death do you part. 


TRUTH NO 5

 There are dead men in the graves ( some died of  slow but certain death by illness due to stress and bitterness) , dead men in the beer parlour (men who seek to drown their sorrow in alcohol ) and dead men in the work place ( men who overwork to avoid going home)


Next week, I will teach  what fathers must teach their daughters Girls to watch out for before accepting the proposal for marriage. 


Bishop Chinedu Nwoye

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